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Leaning into Less: Ditch the Hustle in the Final Weeks of 2024

December 10, 2024 by ABL Staff Leave a Comment

In the final weeks of 2024, it can be easy to get swept away by the idea that you “need more” to have a happy holiday season and sa trong start to the new year.

As December picks up, it’s easy to get caught up in the frenzy of consumerism, from gift shopping to extravagant feasts. However, consuming less during this time can lead to a more fulfilling and peaceful experience. The first step in this process is to reassess your priorities and values. Reflect on what the holidays truly mean to you and your loved ones. Instead of focusing on material possessions, consider emphasizing experiences and connections. Create a list of activities fostering togetherness, such as baking with family, ice skating, or volunteering for a local charity. By prioritizing meaningful interactions over material goods, you set the tone for a holiday season that values relationships over consumption.

Once you have established your intentions for the season, it’s crucial to set a budget and stick to it. This not only applies to gift-giving but also to food and decorations. Determine what is
essential and plan accordingly—perhaps handmade gifts or experiences, such as outings or dinners, can replace bought items. By establishing a budget, you can alleviate financial stress and focus on enjoying the season rather than worrying about expenses. Planning meals in advance can also minimize food waste and prevent last-minute splurges. This will encourage you to be more mindful of your consumption habits, fostering a sense of control and empowerment during a typically chaotic time of year.

The mental health benefits of consuming less during the holidays are profound. By reducing material consumption, we can lessen the anxiety and stress often associated with gift-giving pressures and maintaining a perfect holiday image. Instead, we create space for gratitude and mindfulness, allowing ourselves to appreciate what we already have. Engaging in community activities or giving back can enhance our sense of connection and purpose. This shift in focus can be particularly beneficial in December, a month that can amplify feelings of loneliness and sadness for many. We cultivate a happier and more grounded mindset when we prioritize experiences and emotional connections over physical items.

Ultimately, choosing to consume less can help us slow down and savor the essence of the final months of the year. By embracing a more intentional approach, we can transform the holidays from a source of stress to a time of joyful reflection. This awareness allows us to engage fully with our loved ones, creating cherished memories rather than accumulating material things. As we move through December, let’s continue embrace simplicity, prioritize the joy of connection over the hustle.

Filed Under: Anxiety, Emotional coaching, happiness, mental wellness

Your Self-Soothing Toolkit for the Holidays: Employing Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Skills

December 2, 2024 by ABL Staff Leave a Comment

The holiday season, filled with joy and celebration, can also bring about a whirlwind of emotions and stress. For many, this time can highlight feelings of anxiety, loneliness, or even conflict
within families. However, employing the skills learned from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) can provide crucial tools to navigate this challenging period with a greater sense of balance and
well-being. By focusing on mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness, individuals can create a more manageable and enjoyable holiday experience.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the cornerstone of DBT, allowing individuals to remain present and grounded amid the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. This practice encourages you to engage fully in the moment, whether while decorating the tree or attending a family gathering. Taking a few moments each day to practice mindfulness can help you acknowledge and accept your feelings without judgment. This might involve simple techniques such as deep breathing exercises, observing your surroundings with intention, or even mindful eating. By cultivating awareness, you’re less likely to become overwhelmed by stressors often accompanying holiday obligations.

Distress Tolerance & Emotional Regulation

When holiday stressors inevitably arise, having solid distress tolerance skills can make a significant difference. These skills enable you to cope with difficult emotions without resorting to harmful behaviors. Techniques such as the “TIPP” skills—temperature, intense exercise, paced breathing, and progressive relaxation—can offer immediate relief. For instance, if you feel anxious about an upcoming family dinner, a few minutes of controlled breathing or a brisk walk can lower your stress levels. Additionally, consider creating a “self-soothing” toolkit filled with items or activities that bring you comfort, like a favorite book, calming tea, or inspirational music, helping you to navigate moments of heightened emotions.

Interpersonal Effectiveness

Lastly, the interpersonal effectiveness skills from DBT equip you to maintain healthier relationships during the holiday season. Clear communication about your needs, setting boundaries, and learning to say no can help protect your emotional health. Expressing your thoughts and feelings assertively is essential while respecting others’ perspectives. For example, if attending multiple family gatherings feels overwhelming, it’s okay to prioritize your well-being by discussing alternative arrangements or reduced attendance. Practicing these skills will not only enhance your interactions but will also foster more meaningful and positive connections with your loved ones, creating a shared experience that honors all parties involved. Incorporating DBT skills this holiday season can transform a potentially challenging time into an opportunity for growth and connection. By embracing mindfulness, employing distress tolerance, and practicing interpersonal effectiveness, you can navigate the complexities of the holidays more effectively. Remember, it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions during this time—by using the tools of DBT, you empower yourself to approach the season with resilience and grace, ultimately fostering deeper connections and moments of joy.

Are you navigating a challenging holiday season? We have 6 highly trained therapists who also specialize in dialectal behavioral therapy. Take the next step and call us today: 530-544-1748.

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